So as a reminder, people were talking about the importance/role of dependence on the formation of "self"... for lack of better word. Whether it be school, or parents, or even social structure, to what degree they are influential.
Here are some other links that I think you guys might find interesting, concerning the pros and cons of what is being called "helicopter parenting" by U.S. experts.
Interesting quote from "Anatomy of Dependence" by Takeo Doi, a Japanese psychologist.
遠慮:enryo
"Enryo is restraint or holding back, with the idea that a person must not presume too much on another's good will. in a parent-child relationship, there is no enryo. In other relationships, enryo decreases proportionately with intimacy and increases with distance. "
遠慮:enryo
"Enryo is restraint or holding back, with the idea that a person must not presume too much on another's good will. in a parent-child relationship, there is no enryo. In other relationships, enryo decreases proportionately with intimacy and increases with distance. "
I just wanted to comment that this concept of the "narrowing system," where there is one path to success, is becoming a global thing, mainly in capitalist nations. Even though we read Nation of Wimps, many of you know that this is not just an American thing - scholars in Japan have been talking about it for years. This has been attributed to some very general cultural reasons are: emphasis on efficiency, and the necessity of conformity for harmony.
Some links from the NYTimes:
The hikikomori trend (people withdrawing from society). This will be more important once we get to Spirited Away - keep in mind the baby, and Chihiro's own struggles.
This one is a defense of helicopter parents:
http://parenting.blogs.nytimes.com/2009/03/04/in-defense-of-helicopter-parents/?scp=7&sq=japan%20parent%20hikikomori&st=cseThis week we're starting Porco Rosso, so I don't think we'll have more questions for Kiki...
And sorry I failed on posting last Wednesday!!
This week we'll have some Porco Rosso resources up early for you guys to check out after our discussion and we can discuss it more indepth then.